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solosnake posted...

isnt that enough to know she is unhappy in the relationship?

IDK, seems simple to me. But then again Ive been through a lot of failed relationships. Why force something thats not there, life is too short

Im not unhappy. Its normal to have ups and downs in long term relationships. We were doing pretty good for a while now until the last few weeks when he started reverting to old habits. Basically him taking his stress out on me.

BlazinBlue88 posted...

Isn't really an excuse though. The responsibilities of being a husband are just as important as the ones he has at work. Yeah that might make it sound like being a husband is a job and it sorta is. You work really hard and prove yourself to your SO. That's just how it is. The more you make a habit out of putting forth effort, the easier it becomes.

Yup I tell him its not a good excuse. I told him that the day before I flew out, when we had our discussion about it. He cant use me as a punching bag. But Im patient with him. Im not perfect either and I have a lot of medical issues he puts up with.