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Topic	A Chad was hitting on me at the bar
solosnake 07/31/19 9:43:46 AM #179:	Cleo_II posted... emblem boy posted... Did he change after marriage? Yes. He tried way more before we got married. We would go out a lot more and he was a lot more patient. Id say his change started in the last 3-4 years. BlazinBlue88 posted... Oh well then... It seems like he isn't fully wrapping his head around the idea of constant effort in a marriage. I guess he was just appeasing you so you'd get over it. Like others have asked. Was he like this when you guys were dating? Most people make all this effort when dating then stop once you get married. You can't do that though. You always need to put in that dating effort. Yeah he used to put in a lot more effort. But then he started working at companies he really hated and would take it out on me when he got home. He likes this latest company but now hes working really hard to prove himself so hes tired all the time. At least he ended up realizing he was acting like he usually does last night and came up and apologized. At some point you are gonna have to ask how old do you wanna get before you realize you arent happy in your relationship. You arent gonna get any younger, and the chads will slowly stop coming --- "We would have no NBA possibly if they got rid of all the flopping." ~ Dwyane Wade https://imgur.com/MYYEIx5 https://imgur.com/WGE12ef <cite>solosnake posted [p:925424549] in A Chad was... [t:77892128]...</cite> <quote>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote>emblem boy posted... </cite> <quote>Did he change after marriage?</quote>Yes. He tried way more before we got married. We would go out a lot more and he was a lot more patient. Id say his change started in the last 3-4 years. BlazinBlue88 posted... </cite> <quote>Oh well then... It seems like he isn't fully wrapping his head around the idea of constant effort in a marriage. I guess he was just appeasing you so you'd get over it. Like others have asked. Was he like this when you guys were dating? Most people make all this effort when dating then stop once you get married. You can't do that though. You always need to put in that dating effort.</quote>Yeah he used to put in a lot more effort. But then he started working at companies he really hated and would take it out on me when he got home. He likes this latest company but now hes working really hard to prove himself so hes tired all the time. At least he ended up realizing he was acting like he usually does last night and came up and apologized. </quote> At some point you are gonna have to ask how old do you wanna get before you realize you arent happy in your relationship. You arent gonna get any younger, and the chads will slowly stop coming --- "We would have no NBA possibly if they got rid of all the flopping." ~ Dwyane Wade https://imgur.com/MYYEIx5 https://imgur.com/WGE12ef</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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