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TopicA Chad was hitting on me at the bar
Cleo_II
07/29/19 8:47:50 PM
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Comfy_Pillow posted...
Cleo_II posted...
BlazinBlue88 posted...
Cleo_II posted...
You nailed it though. He gets comfortable. So do I, it happens in a marriage. But these last few weeks he was just extra cranky.

My wife is very blunt so she just tells me directly, "You're fucking up."
It usually gets the message across. lol

I've gotten better at recognizing when I'm getting comfortable before it gets to that point but she still needs to remind me sometimes.

Thats awesome. Sounds like youre both in tune with each other. My husband needs a little more to get there.

Comfy_Pillow posted...
Your idea of him treating you better is spending lots of money on you? Lol wow


This is an interesting take given that our finances are all pooled and I bring in about $2k net more per month than he does. But I forget how much hatred CE has for women.


I'm just going off of your op where you mentioned him treating you better is by him offering an expensive meal and to take you shopping (which you complained he rarely does). If that is his go-to in order for you to be happy, that says something.

We dont do date nights at all. I have posted in the past that its been an issue. He doesnt put effort into doing anything or planning stuff for anniversaries/birthdays. We havent gone to dinner together in months. He was supposed to take me out for my birthday in June, but never got around to it. Ive mentioned to him in the past that I would love to try a Michelin star restaurant someday. So he brought it up and is making reservations for us.

I also posted that he left work early to spend time with me and apologized for his actions. My husband rarely apologizes for anything.
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