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| Topic | Ok CE...should I lower my standard for girls, or keep getting rejected? |
| Anteaterking 12/29/18 1:16:20 AM #55: | MFBKBass5 posted... Online dating. Theyre not blind dates at all haha. But Im the opposite actually. I find myself way more charming than via text/messaging. But I think along the lines of what Balrog is saying, the fact that you're getting these dates in the first place means that the 95% confidence interval of your attractiveness based on your photo(s) on your online dating profile plus the personality you give off through your texts/messages passes the bar for trying to date. If you were really more charming in person, you're suggesting that you're so much uglier in person that it's outside even the low end of expectations AND it's also enough to outweigh your personality and additional charm. That just doesn't seem likely, unless your photos are incredibly misleading (which, if they are you should change them, unless you like just getting first dates). My guess is that you aren't as charming in person as you think and it's possible that something about what you consider your charm is turning people off. After all, acting stereotypically "suave" can make someone feel like they are being charming while not really landing. --- ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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