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Topicattn: CEers who have slept with their ex after breaking up, i need advice
Parappa09
12/28/18 10:10:10 AM
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my friend is going through this process now and is asking for help

she broke up with her bf around 2 months ago. at first they stopped speaking completely. she was angry at him, played petty games towards one another, then blocked him, etc

and because they're in the same friendship group, they are at the same parties occasionally. at my birthday party last month, she was telling me that she didn't love him and she was completely over him, although he's clearly not over her. the day after my birthday party, there was another party where they both bumped into each other but didn't say anything. then ended up speaking to each other on the phone for 4 hours when they both went home

and i found out that they went to another party last weekend and have been speaking every day since then, but purely on a friendship level. nothing too intimate but also completely avoiding the subject about breaking up or relationship stuff

and i've just found out that they went out for dinner, movies and then slept with each other afterwards. they both definitely have feelings for each other, but i don't think they want to get back into a relationship

is this healthy? i feel like telling her that it's fine as long as she's not getting hurt. but i feel like it's going to make everything 100x worse
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