I think infidelity is bad, but I don't understand the idea that the person you raised for X years is somehow a waste to you because they don't share your DNA is really dumb.
Well if this ain't shitpost of the year I don't know what is. I've seen some fucking garbage here over the years, but damn. This post right here.
So if you raised and loved a kid for ten years only to find out hes not really your kid, youd abandon them and never look back?
Without a second thought.
Well, maybe that's a little harsh to say it like that, but I absolutely don't think I could stand to be a part of their life anymore.
That's a pretty shitty thing to do
Funny you call that shitty, but have no comment on the people who cheat on their spouse and lie to their spouse and their child(ren).
I'd say that's more shitty, like your post.
Yes, the wife is a lying piece of crap. The child however is innocent. Treating them like some sort of stranger isnt fair to them at best and is monstrously cruel at worst. They didn't ask to be born like they were, they had no choice in their parentage. Running out on them, the only father they ever knew, is just as shitty as the cheating wife. Maybe more so.
It also sucks that a guy is expected to be financially responsible for something he otherwise wouldn't have been financially responsible for. Everyone's taking a hit here, regardless of which route either party takes. ---