Complaining and whining about it definitely never got anyone closer. What's the best outcome of bitching about not getting laid? Some chick pity fucks you? That's your endgame?
Just speaking in general here
It brings to light issues that need fixing. Again, when something doesn't affect the majority of people it slips under the radar. Once the issue is large enough it can't be ignored, it must be dealt with immediately. The LGBT+ movement in the past two decades is an excellent example. Hardly anyone supported it, and now almost everyone does, because we realized a lot of people are LGBT+ and they weren't on an even playing field like the rest of us, and that they are people, too, that share the same emotions as the rest of us. Or the Guilded Age, when working conditions were shit, but complaining and whining improved lives across the nation because the issues could not be ignored. And when sexual frustration gets the spotlight (social issue, so give it a while before it gets taken seriously), the same will happen. The question is how will it happen?