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SSJCAT posted...

i see ugly guys with beautiful women all day every single day. yall are creating your own problems.
get some confidence, be a friendly and interesting person, and girls will respond to a persons vibe and energy much more than their looks.
from my experience, men are much more shallow than women are.
quit being a whiny bitch and get laid

That is basically the bootstraps perspective. Stop whining about your problems, improve yourself, other people have done it so you can too. I dont have a problem with that. And its not because I dont recognize that life isnt fair and never will be, but more that it isnt anyone specifics fault and youre better off helping yourself, instead of waiting for someone else (e.g. the government) to do it for you. Just keep in mind that there are a lot of members here who absolutely loathe the bootstraps perspective. Theyd better not be applying it to this incel situation or it would make them a bunch of double standard jackasses.
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