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Topic$1700 a month for 3 days of daycare per week.
EvalAngell
11/29/18 11:01:16 AM
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s0nicfan posted...
EvalAngell posted...
t_paynes_ghost posted...
That's why my waifu is a stay at home mom, she may start working evenings/weekends when her mat leave ends, but no way are we paying for child care. Why have a kid if you're going to have other people raise them?


This was a last resort. We have no other alternative. Neither of us can stay home. I need to work to keep my family on our insurance plan. My wife needs to work because otherwise she'll go insane caring for them everyday. They're a nightmare most days. And she already reworked her schedule so she had Mondays off. My mom is already jeopardizing her job by "working from home" on Fridays.

And we both make good money, but yet half of it is being thrown away on this.


Why did you have kids? Asking seriously, because it sounds like neither you nor she was really up for it.


It kinda just happened. And we are both in our early 30s. So if not now then when? We love the boys. But let's be real. Having one is tough...but dealing with TWO crying babies day in and day out will drive even the most patient person insane. My wife is incredibly patient. But even she has started to crack because of the stress.

Has nothing to do with wanting kids or not. You don't know how they'll be til they're here. Right now they're teething too which makes it infinitely worse.
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