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| Topic | Tried (and failed) to pickup women at Starbucks |
| pojr 11/27/18 12:07:27 PM #1: | Out of the 3 Starbucks locations I went to, I only approached one woman. As an indirect conversation starter, I asked her to watch my laptop as I went to the bathroom. She agreed. When I came out, I commented on her Surface Pro and we got into a conversation from there. Tried working on my body language and voice so that I appeared confident...not sure if I succeeded in either of those elements. Apparently she is a foreigner from Vietnam and she has been in the US for 5 years. She seemed genuinely interested in talking to me, she kept trying to keep our discussion going, no dead air. When I asked for her number, she suggested that I give her mine instead. I actually like this, as now she can control whether she is interested in contacting me or not. It keeps the pressure off, and it makes her more comfortable I imagine. Unfortunately she didn't contact me (its been 2 days), but I didn't expect her to so I'm not disappointed. I'm proud that I put in the effort, and may try talking to other women later. My question: Is what I did bad? Was it unethical or weird? --- pojr I summon it. You spell it. ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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