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Topic	childfree = female equivalent of incels?
Hawaiian_punch 10/29/18 11:00:46 AM #36:	DyingPancake posted... Coastal_elite posted... DyingPancake posted... I have this one girl on Facebook who makes not having a kid her identity. She constantly posts memes about not having kids, she wants to argue with people who do have kids when literally no one responds to most of her posts, She always talks about all the things she's glad she can do (even though she talks about not having the money to do anything), and she always posts these articles about not having kids. Its just really bizzare it's a defensive mechanism. And I understand her. Everybody must shit on her for not having kids, and it's none of their business Maybe. I can't say for sure since I haven't actually spoken to her in years. I still think its odd to care that much I do agree its an annoying mentality for people to have though. Just the other week I was out with my brother-in-law and he say someone he hadn't seen in awhile and she saw his daughter and one of the first things she said was "When are you guys having another one?", and he said "People never seem to ever be happy enough with where you are in life. Its always 'When are you getting married?', 'When are you buying a house?', 'When are you having a kid', 'When are you having another?'", and he's right. Many people never seem interested in if you're actually happy. Only what they think happiness should be Those people see life as a gigantic dick measuring contest. First its about how popular you are and who you date in school. Then its about what college you get into Then its about who gets the best job Then its about who is more successful Youd think it would stop there, but no: Then it is about who marries Then it is about who has kids and who doesnt Then it is about how many kids the person has Then it is about how well your kids are doing. From that point the stuff in block 1 (popularity, dating, college/grades, job) becomes the expectations for your kids, and some 80 year old fuck may be harassing you (who are 80 too) like my kid just had a second kid! And his first one got an a+ on his playing with clay assignment in kindergarten! How are YOUR grandchildren doing? ;) , the cycle never ends <cite>Hawaiian_punch posted [p:911382338] in childfree ... [t:77144459]...</cite> <quote><cite>DyingPancake posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Coastal_elite posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DyingPancake posted...</cite> <quote>I have this one girl on Facebook who makes not having a kid her identity. She constantly posts memes about not having kids, she wants to argue with people who do have kids when literally no one responds to most of her posts, She always talks about all the things she's glad she can do (even though she talks about not having the money to do anything), and she always posts these articles about not having kids. Its just really bizzare</quote> it's a defensive mechanism. And I understand her. Everybody must shit on her for not having kids, and it's none of their business</quote> Maybe. I can't say for sure since I haven't actually spoken to her in years. I still think its odd to care that much I do agree its an annoying mentality for people to have though. Just the other week I was out with my brother-in-law and he say someone he hadn't seen in awhile and she saw his daughter and one of the first things she said was "When are you guys having another one?", and he said "People never seem to ever be happy enough with where you are in life. Its always 'When are you getting married?', 'When are you buying a house?', 'When are you having a kid', 'When are you having another?'", and he's right. Many people never seem interested in if you're actually happy. Only what they think happiness should be</quote> Those people see life as a gigantic dick measuring contest. First its about how popular you are and who you date in school. Then its about what college you get into Then its about who gets the best job Then its about who is more successful Youd think it would stop there, but no: Then it is about who marries Then it is about who has kids and who doesnt Then it is about how many kids the person has Then it is about how well your kids are doing. From that point the stuff in block 1 (popularity, dating, college/grades, job) becomes the expectations for your kids, and some 80 year old fuck may be harassing you (who are 80 too) like my kid just had a second kid! And his first one got an a+ on his playing with clay assignment in kindergarten! How are YOUR grandchildren doing? ;) , the cycle never ends</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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