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ForestLogic posted...

Most people over 30 that I know are all tired and miserable. Most of them it's because they had children, but some are just like that because, idk, they're not good at coping I guess? My fiancee turned 30 this year and I'm turning 30 in a couple months. We haven't slowed down at all and make sure to keep life fun and interesting. I think what happens is most people just forget how to have fun and resign themselves to "Oh, I'm not 17 anymore, therefore I'm supposed to always feel run down and sad. I feel really bad for them, but most of them refuse to change. They lose their sense of whimsy and adventure and childlike wonder, and it's all downhill after that.

TBQH, the only part of my life I'm not satisfied with is my social life, mostly because me and my fiancee never get to see our friends anymore on account of them never wanting to make plans due to their aforementioned tired/miserable existence.

Yea, that blows my mind honestly. A ton of people on Facebook always post about how old they are and how the good days are behind them (were early 30s btw)

Im 34 with a kid and Ive havent stopped doing the things I love and my wife and I still go out plenty and take vacations (just got back from LA this week actually)

I just dont get this being tired thing. People are just letting life pass by for no reason