Talked to a black girl for a short stint, but she invited me to Hawaii with her family after only knowing each other for like a week. Scared me away. (Definitely regret not going)
Why would that scare you? It's just an adventure.
Do you normally invite people you've hooked up with once, to family vacations?
It could have just been a nice gesture, but to me, that screams...STAGE 5 CLINGER
If I enjoyed the hookup and their company, sure. I'm not afraid to state my preferences. I don't play games when it comes to dating, though. "oh I like this girl, but I don't want to show my cards too early". Then suddenly I'm not being myself.
But back to the point here....she could have been a clinger. Sure. But you gotta learn how to get rid of clingers after using them for their vacations and stuff. Just suddenly start acting all psycho and crazy. If that doesn't do it, up it a couple notches. For example, next time you hang out with her, draw a bunch of stick figures killing each other with guns on your face with a permanent marker. That's just one idea out of millions you can come up with.
You see, people think they have to deal with clingers by being nice. Nope. You gotta turn them off as quickly as they were turned on. That's how they operate. Seriously, wear a pair of sweat pants with the word "poop" spelled out in duct tape letters going down each pant leg next time you go on a date with them. Cut out holes on your shirt small enough to where you can poke both nipples through them. Just be weird and crazy.
