I agree under the current legal system, it's probably not considered rape, but it definitely should be.
But non-trans people can do the exact same thing as trans people and not be rapists but trans people are.
But you're not transphobic.
No, nobody can do the same exact thing as a transperson unless they are literally pretending to be a transperson. There is no equivalent to it, and to say otherwise is being disingenuous. Being trans is in a category of its own.
Youre completely out of arguments so now youre calling everything disengenous, huh?
Yes, I think this argument of "being trans is not at all a big deal" is either someone being out of touch with the norm (i.e. unironically saying that penises are not a gendered thing, taking the whole feminine penis meme seriously) or being purposely disingenuous.
You realize youre the only one pushing this being trans is not a big deal thing, right? I guess thatd make you the disengenous one. Ive been saying all topic that if its a dealbreaker you should take responsibility for informing your partner that. Do you not know what dealbreaker means? It means its such a big deal for you that wont continue on if you have that information. So would you like to stop being disengenous?
If you're saying it does not need to be disclosed, you are saying it's not a big deal. You are actively comparing it to other minor things which someone may not need to disclose while engaging in sexual intercourse. Other than an STD, that is the biggest thing for the normal person.