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Topic	had this hot girl DTF but fucked it up in an interesting way (my bad)
No_U_L7 08/31/18 10:31:49 AM #20:	Background information/terms: Attraction-In trying to build attraction with a girl, the first thing we must ask ourselves, is what exactly is attraction? In the simplest terms, it is the combination of comfort and value (see next terms) Comfort-When a girl feels at ease with you, it is created when over time, you dont do anything weird or push anything further than what you can get away with (ie trying to kiss a girl before shes ready to kiss you destroys comfort) Value-This is what draws a girl to you, things that make her think I slept with him for these reasons. There are many ways to have value, heres a few: being smart, being funny, and being good looking What do girls really want in a partner-To put it simply, girls want the partner they dont feel they deserve but they feel like they earned. They want a guy that they feel is better than they are, but that they feel like they worked hard enough they should be able to have him. Or to put it another way, she wants a guy that has a ton of value but that shes put in the time to build up the comfort with. Shit test-Random things girls will say that are intended to screen out non-confident men. IE, if you go say hi to a girl and she says no thanks without even looking at you, that is a shit test. Unconfident guys will leave and confident guys will persist. She just screened out unworthy sex partners in less than a second! Girls will do this almost subconsciously Frame-The lens from which the interaction is viewed. If you think you need to impress a girl to win her over, that is your frame. My frame, and the correct one? I am the prize, the girl should be winning me over and should chase after me Narrative-The story of the night of how you two met, got to know each other and hooked up. This is essentially what shell tell her friends about what happened between the two of you. If something in the narrative wouldnt make her look good to her friends, its probably not going to happen. Luckily for you, you can control the narrative if you know what youre doing --- http://img207.imageshack.us/img207/7813/kateb9200.gif http://i.imgur.com/QPgN9.jpg?1 <cite>No_U_L7 posted [p:907866648] in had this h... [t:76953658]...</cite> <quote>Background information/terms: Attraction-In trying to build attraction with a girl, the first thing we must ask ourselves, is what exactly is attraction? In the simplest terms, it is the combination of comfort and value (see next terms) Comfort-When a girl feels at ease with you, it is created when over time, you dont do anything weird or push anything further than what you can get away with (ie trying to kiss a girl before shes ready to kiss you destroys comfort) Value-This is what draws a girl to you, things that make her think I slept with him for these reasons. There are many ways to have value, heres a few: being smart, being funny, and being good looking What do girls really want in a partner-To put it simply, girls want the partner they dont feel they deserve but they feel like they earned. They want a guy that they feel is better than they are, but that they feel like they worked hard enough they should be able to have him. Or to put it another way, she wants a guy that has a ton of value but that shes put in the time to build up the comfort with. Shit test-Random things girls will say that are intended to screen out non-confident men. IE, if you go say hi to a girl and she says no thanks without even looking at you, that is a shit test. Unconfident guys will leave and confident guys will persist. She just screened out unworthy sex partners in less than a second! Girls will do this almost subconsciously Frame-The lens from which the interaction is viewed. If you think you need to impress a girl to win her over, that is your frame. My frame, and the correct one? I am the prize, the girl should be winning me over and should chase after me Narrative-The story of the night of how you two met, got to know each other and hooked up. This is essentially what shell tell her friends about what happened between the two of you. If something in the narrative wouldnt make her look good to her friends, its probably not going to happen. Luckily for you, you can control the narrative if you know what youre doing --- http://img207.imageshack.us/img207/7813/kateb9200.gif http://i.imgur.com/QPgN9.jpg?1</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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