And the "small thing" you asked for was another shot. And now she's not your friend because she didn't give you another shot. Which is exactly what I said.
Nope. The small thing I asked for was to hear me out over dinner and drink, and she could easily turn me down if nothing changed for her. I would still try to be her friend, even if she turned me down, which I made perfectly clear to her and told her I would have no hard feelings.
What she did was deny this small thing I was asking of her by throwing this other guy in my face whom she is supposedly not even seriously seeing at this point.
I honestly hope you're trolling.
So hearing you out over dinner and drinks =\= giving you another shot? Im confused
Her giving me another shot is saying yes, and allowing me to work my way back into her affection. Hearing me out can lead to giving me another shot, but no they aren't the same thing.
Again, the girl says she cares about me and doesn't want to hurt me. I expressed to her what I felt like I needed as we close the book on this relationship: I just wanted to treat her to a good time and express my feelings for her for the last time. We could continue our friendship, if she wasn't convinced. I told her I wasn't going to beg her, or do some big show of affection like I'm Jim from the Office.
I really don't think it's too much to ask from a person that claims to want to be your friend.