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Ultima Dragon posted...

So like... what was your end game then honestly? Just to continue the status quo? The whole not great, long distance open relationship? I know four years is a long time to invest in someone, but that just doesn't seem like the kind of thing that was ever going to work out. Where's the incentive for either her or you to bridge the distance gap? Would it ever realistically have happened? That's something everyone that finds themselves in a long distance relationship should be asking themselves. Am I willing to uproot my life for this person?

Well, she is actually was about to start applying to grad schools which were likely (though not certainly) going to bring us closer together. Depending on the school, she could have ended up in the same city as me, or maybe a train ride away, which is a lot more bearable and something we've dealt with before. Although there is a possibility that the status quo would have continued.