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chocolatemuffin posted...

this, i'm gonna keep asking till you say yes mentality is so weird. as a person who has had guys repeatedly message me despite me saying no for up to and in 2 cases OVER a year it's like do you think asking me more is making it more likely for me to say yes or are you now pissing me off? if you go to mcdonalds and they say they are out of fries are you gonna ask for fries 6 times till they are like oh haha ya fam we were just seeing how bad you really wanted them here ya go or are you gonna take what you can get or go to a different mcdonalds. further you set up a kind of shitty situation "hey i have your stuff feel free to come and get it you just have to sit through an emotionally draining 15 minute pitch on why you should continue to be in an unsatisfying ldr with 7 week gaps between seeing eachother" honestly dude let her get her shit set up the bedroom/couch for her and then leave her the hell alone for the duration of your stay unless she initiates something.

I told her I just wanted to spend those two nights together and have a good time, and try to convince her one last time. I was explicit in telling her that I wouldn't make any further attempts after that.

I really don't see what the big deal is in asking that.