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TopicUgh... Wife wants another kid, I'm dead set against it. What to do?
Lord_Wombat
07/08/18 11:08:51 PM
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Raikuro posted...
It's never a good idea to bring a kid into the world if both parents aren't interested in the idea. Don't let her guilt you into anything, she's being the selfish one.


I agree that it's not a great idea, and I won't let anyone guilt me into anything, but I gotta say she's being no more selfish than I am, it's just opposing views/sides of an argument.

masticatingman posted...
Your age argument isnt a good one. Men have new kids all the time in their late 30s and thru their 40s. The expectation is youll take care of yourself reasonably well. You probably wont depart until the new kid is in their 30s or 40s themselves. You really only have an argument as a guy to not have kids in your 50s on up...although you can still do it then too if you want. So yeah, hate to break it to ya but you got a long shelf life.

That being said, I feel for you I guess but having kids while possible is a pretty crucial aspect to hetero relationships and theres no easy answer.

Indeed. Never said it was a "good" argument, but it's the truth. I keep in pretty good shape, but I just view it as... Well, not too old, but too old for me.

rodu_jr posted...
fake your death, start over



As far as a vasectomy, it sounds terrifying :V
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