It's kind of silly, but what's the actual downside to this?
"It'll kill the mood" or some bs from virgins and people who haven't always engaged in consensual sex with all their partners.
The sad thing is that you actually believe this rubbish
If you can't ask a person "hey want me to get the condoms" to confirm they wanted and were willing to engage in sex, then I'd say you're the one who believes in rubbish.
This is how I know you don't actually have sex lol
Is it sex if I'm bound, squished by the thighs of one partner and I'm being rammed by a strap-on worn by another partner?
No to you it's only sex if you ask "is this okay?" for every damn act and position