uh i'm a recovering alcoholic. do you even know what that means? it just means you're an alcoholic who isn't drinking and is living a sober lifestyle. how would that make him more prone to being abusive or more prone to sexually assaulting his girlfriend?
Oh I don't know. Some people do some messed up stuff when having withdrawls. Maybe you didn't, but I've seen it happen. But sure, just because Jen and her infinite wisdom says it can't be the case, it's not.
I don't even know what stage of his recovery he would have been in when with her, just it's a possibility I'm throwing out there that's probably not even a factor.
The situation you described doesn't fit with someone quitting alcohol. ---