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marc55 posted...

and why didnt she say anything about being with another man ?

She did... sort of. Dykstra does not call it cheating, though I think Hardwick did call it that, which is supposedly why he broke up with her. But she claims she broke up with him and he wanted her back. He wrecked her claim when he came forward with messages she sent about wanting to get back with him.

Fuck, this situation is all a mess and is a big example of He said, she said. Anway, here is her own writing from TCs link:

After three years of being snapped/yelled at constantly, very rarely being shown any affection- I finally left him. For another man. That I had literally just met. I was so desperate to be out I just clung on to the first knight in shining armor to show up.
Unfortunately, there was a slight crossover: a kiss. A kiss I immediately told him about, and he, surprisingly, instantly forgave me. Turned a total 180. He begged me not to leave him, even told me he was planning to propose; despite stating previously he had no intention to marry me.

I bolded the parts that confuse me. Why did she have to tell Hardwick about the kiss from another guy and then mention Hardwick forgiving her, if she had broken up with Hardwick? This all seems very suspicious because it sounds like a half-assed confession. On the other hand, the argument could be made that people suffering from abuse do weird things.
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