Including let him sexually assault me. Regularly. I was expected to be ready for him when he came home from work.
How did this happen? At the beginning of our relationship, I was quite ill often due to my diet, something Ill get to in a bit. One night he initiated, and I said, Im so sorry, can we not tonight? Im feeling really sick. He responded, I just want to remind you, the reason my last relationship didnt work out was because of the lack of sex. It was a veiled threat. I succumbed.
Every night, I laid there for him, occasionally in tears. He called it starfishing. He thought the whole idea was funny. To be fair, I did go along with it out of fear of losing him. Im still recovering from being sexually used (not in a super fun way) for three years.
Some of y'all really don't see this as sexual abuse?
I think it's extremely scummy and pathetic, but at the end of the day she had a choice. Not like he held her down and forced himself on her or threatened her with violence.
have you read about illegal inmigrant women who are victims of domestic abuse and are unable to seek help because they would be deported and the guy would keep the children