Since your so hard up for answers, post#40 was being posted while you edited in your question that you are so desperate for me to answer.
So, let's see, a newly recovering alcoholic that blames abuse by her brothers (which is a terrible thing that her parents didn't seem to help with) for causing long-term PTSD as the reason for drinking, is already planning to avoid her family 4 months away, just like she tried avoiding feelings by being drunk all the time.
Stop being judgemental towards people that you don't know irl. ---
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