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I think it depends why somebody changed their opinion. If it was because they were uninformed previously or even just feel differently about something they already understood fully, I think it's fair to let people adjust their stance and not shame them for it. I have more respect for those who are willing to admit they were wrong, especially if they really dug in their heels. Ignoramuses who just get worked up and irrational ruin everything.

I have a lot of free time to think, so my beliefs are fairly constant and I always support them with logic - whether or not anyone agrees with my opinions is beside the point, as all I expect is for others to accept my reasoning and agree to disagree. The great irony is that I'm a very emotional person, I just respect facts, laws, statistics, etc. more than empathy as a decision-making tool. That doesn't make me better than somebody who wears their heart on their sleeve (and is led around by it), but in my experience we're largely incompatible with one-another because I am not extended the same courtesy I provide. It's really fun when the latter description applies to my mom...

The internet plays a huge role in cowardice. Anything you say online, you need to be willing to say to a person's face. People too afraid to admit they were wrong are also cowards, as well as those who change their opinions to suit their company. There's nothing to respect about sycophants. They're selfish and spineless. Ultimately though, beliefs are fluid. Circumstances change and what seemed cemented at one time may not be anymore. All that's important is being honest with yourself and being able to justify any views you hold and explain why you changed your mind.
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