Your life, your rules on what to do with it. Just don't leave a clusterfuck mess behind that the living have to clean up (which includes burdening your kin). THAT is undeniably selfish...
Someone wants to clock out early and they don't got any dependents? I don't feel it's my obligation to change their mind. I'm not going to argue with them as long as they're not leaving behind family that still needs support. The family wants to live; they shouldn't suffer because someone else decides to be emotionally negligent. Get the kids with someone safe. Leave grandma and grandpa with other relatives. Have the decency to get them off the crazy bus before you wreck it. You owe them that much.
Then decide what the fuck to do with your own life.
I have never had sympathies for anyone who committed suicide while endangering others. They're weak-willed, ruthless people who make me wish there really is a punishment waiting for them in the afterlife.
I'm getting massive sociopathic vibes from this post ---