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Topic	Imagine being a virgin/incel in 2018.
DarthGravid 05/27/18 5:37:52 PM #91:	RedWhiteBlue posted... DarthGravid posted... No, if you do all of that and still can't close the deal, it's your personality. There are people that don't know how to flirt (because no one gave them the light of day) Don't know how to socialize (the clueless type, not the rude type) Don't find common ground with the sex of their choice (common issue for everyone. Good example is dedicated gamer dude) Live in a place with few singles, or low population area (most people can't just up and move out of the blue) Don't want to do activities they don't enjoy (specific hobby meetings, drinking, etc) Don't want astronomically slim opportunities (chance of meeting introverted women at a bar who don't drink vs extroverted woman at a bar who drink is basically 1:50 or higher) Basically shit happens. That's life. Just because there are billions of people doesn't mean you will meet them all, or that it's impossible to be the odd person out. Hell, with billions of people you're more likely to hear of the odd person out through the internet. To put the blame on the person as opposed to bad luck, or as if the person themselves is a problem, and not just coincidentally incompatible with others, shows what kind of person you (in general) really are. You make several good points here. However, all of these things can be learned, with patience and time. Rome wasn't built in a day. I didn't score all of mine in a single day, for every success I have probably 10 to 20 failures. When you fail, you pick up, you move on, you learn from it. When is the last time you even tried to talk to a girl? That goes for all of you. I assume with all the whining in this topic that it's been a while since any of you had, and that it didn't go well. But instead of trying again, you decided to blame someone else. Here's a few things that helped me to succeed (remember, I'm a "4-5" at best). Start small, introduce yourself, make a joke, recite a poem, don't go "all in" immediately. Be interesting, be interested in her, but not too much, after all you're "very busy with other things", but you decided to give her a few moments of your time. Everyone likes to talk about their favorite subject, themself. You must avoid this, but if you get her to talk about herself, and you listen well, this goes a long way. Avoid things like Tinder, Tinder is for people who have it easy. Face-to-face, in-person, is the way people have done it for thousands of years. Work on your personal skills, practice in the mirror or with friends. When you're told no, and it will happen, walk away. There's no need for anger, she just wasn't the right one. If 99.999% of the world is unwilling to give you any attention, that leaves 70,000 people that will hump you rotten. Go find one of them. --- http://starwars.wikia.com/wiki/Darth_Gravid <cite>DarthGravid posted [p:902080846] in Imagine be... [t:76644044]...</cite> <quote><cite>RedWhiteBlue posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DarthGravid posted...</cite> <quote>No, if you do all of that and still can't close the deal, it's your personality.</quote> There are people that don't know how to flirt (because no one gave them the light of day) Don't know how to socialize (the clueless type, not the rude type) Don't find common ground with the sex of their choice (common issue for everyone. Good example is dedicated gamer dude) Live in a place with few singles, or low population area (most people can't just up and move out of the blue) Don't want to do activities they don't enjoy (specific hobby meetings, drinking, etc) Don't want astronomically slim opportunities (chance of meeting introverted women at a bar who don't drink vs extroverted woman at a bar who drink is basically 1:50 or higher) Basically shit happens. That's life. Just because there are billions of people doesn't mean you will meet them all, or that it's impossible to be the odd person out. Hell, with billions of people you're more likely to hear of the odd person out through the internet. To put the blame on the person as opposed to bad luck, or as if the person themselves is a problem, and not just coincidentally incompatible with others, shows what kind of person you (in general) really are.</quote> You make several good points here. However, all of these things can be learned, with patience and time. Rome wasn't built in a day. I didn't score all of mine in a single day, for every success I have probably 10 to 20 failures. When you fail, you pick up, you move on, you learn from it. When is the last time you even tried to talk to a girl? That goes for all of you. I assume with all the whining in this topic that it's been a while since any of you had, and that it didn't go well. But instead of trying again, you decided to blame someone else. Here's a few things that helped me to succeed (remember, I'm a "4-5" at best). Start small, introduce yourself, make a joke, recite a poem, don't go "all in" immediately. Be interesting, be interested in her, but not too much, after all you're "very busy with other things", but you decided to give her a few moments of your time. Everyone likes to talk about their favorite subject, themself. You must avoid this, but if you get her to talk about herself, and you listen well, this goes a long way. Avoid things like Tinder, Tinder is for people who have it easy. Face-to-face, in-person, is the way people have done it for thousands of years. Work on your personal skills, practice in the mirror or with friends. When you're told no, and it will happen, walk away. There's no need for anger, she just wasn't the right one. If 99.999% of the world is unwilling to give you any attention, that leaves 70,000 people that will hump you rotten. Go find one of them. --- http://starwars.wikia.com/wiki/Darth_Gravid</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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