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Wow, didn't expect this to explode while I slept.

Anyway, I think people might be confusing "make a move" with "get into a relationship with her" when I really have no intention of that and really mean "knock boots with her". The truth of the matter is that this is an on-going thing with her and her husband, and she's told me multiple times she wanted to leave and I always tried to encourage her to stay, mostly because their differences never seemed physically or psychologically abusive. There's obviously a big blind spot that I don't get to see their day-to-day life but in the few times I interacted with him both directly and indirectly he always seemed like an upstanding guy. Even now while he's going to a divorce lawyer I keep asking her if she thinks this is the right thing to do and she seems to be telling me it's more his choice than hers at this point.

But yeah, this is purely in a physical attraction mindset, not thinking long-term or anything. She already has three kids and her tubes tied, I still want kids of my own. I don't really have any romantic feelings for her and our friendship kind of went through the ringer lately but we've gotten back on good terms in the past few months. I also don't intend to do anything to take advantage of her, but she also used to ask me to do weird stuff before hand of a sexual nature. Like she wanted to get a hotel and asked me to stay with her when she didn't want to be around him, which I politely declined because he's a marine and probably would have killed me being alone with his wife in a random-ass hotel. She actually once offered sex but it's a very convoluted and long story I don't feel like talking about, but she did remark that her husband wouldn't know (I initially proposed back a threesome but she said he'd never go for it). I, once again, politely declined and felt a little insulted that it seemed she thought she could manipulate me with sex and combined with other things kind of led to us having a falling out for a while.

I don't have any intention of taking advantage of her if she's vulnerable, but at the same time if an opportunity presents itself I'm gonna think strongly about taking it this time.
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