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TopicMan pays wife's student loans, she divorces him
Twin3Turbo
05/14/18 3:00:21 PM
#113:


Offworlder1 posted...
Men get a prenup so they dont get fucked up the ass in a divorce, there is almost never a time where divorce favors a man. Women who have cheated, and lied about the baby being his have gotten child support and alimony even when proven to be a liar from the guy who is not the kids father.

A prenup is more like marriage insurance, but it is not an advantage or having a leg up.

@Twin3Turbo

I guess it depends on how you look at it.

It could be a leg up from a "I'd be better off than you if we got divorced" standpoint, which is pretty much the power that the person that makes less money has generally speaking in the marriage because courts try to make them "whole". Either way the power dynamic shifts from woman being able to divorce as she pleases and get money to man gets to divorce as he pleases and potentially leave her with relatively little.

I think these women just want some protection if the thing goes sour, which is certainly self preservation but I'm just not so sure I would call it "sinister", or their primary motivation for getting married in the first place usually.

Either way we ultimately agree, dudes probably have little to gain from getting married and generally shouldn't, and they def shouldn't marry someone without a solid prenup.
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