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UltimaterializerX posted...

Its especially funny when he lectures people on their personal lives given how his own personal life turned out, but I wont go there. He knows what Im talking about and we can just leave it alone.

Nice edit.

It's hilarious that Ulti thinks this qualifies as being the bigger person or exercising restraint.

Context:

My at-the-time girlfriend and I were having some issues. This was mid to late 2010, we'd been together for around 6 years and we were struggling with issues both as individuals and as a couple. She decided that we needed to break up and get our crap together as individuals if we were going to have a shot together at some point. And that sounds good in theory but you never expect it to actually work so as far as I could be concerned we would be finished whether I liked it or not.

I was particularly crushed at this time and just really upset. I took a bit of time off the board, but I did the typical BlogFAQs as well. I didn't give a whole lot of details except to say that I was going through things, but i also confided more of the details to some of my closer online friends.

Well sometime in 2011 I'm in a mafia game. As far as my personal life was concerned it was still a rough time, but I was gradually getting my act together, and I felt comfortable spending the required time to participate in a board mafia game. During this game ulti and I get into a head to head discussion because we both think the other is scum. I'm pretty sure I wasn't, and he might not have been either, but I felt like I had a reasonable list of reasons to suspect him based on his earlier play in the game.

During the course of our discussion with each other he pulls out a line about me just being 'bitter and pathetic because my girlfriend dumped me' or something along those lines. Now I was still really upset and going through a tough time, but the fact of the matter is that my personal life has no relevant being brought up in a game of mafia, particularly as an attack against me while I'm already feeling vulnerable. It crossed a line with me in a pretty major way, and even though I tried to put that interaction out of consideration while dealing with ulti moving forward he still found new equally abrasive ways to deal with me.

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And the bottom line of this story is that my girlfriend at-the-time and I spent a few years apart working on ourselves and we actually did get back together. We dated for a couple more years, got engaged, got married and are currently planning our family.

So while Ulti thinks he is being nice by not bringing up the shitty thing he did 7 years ago, he doesn't seem to realize that my life isn't nearly in the same state it was back then.

But I've been on and off his ignore list ever since. It seems to alternate between him replying to my posts and him saying "of course FD is on ignore". And granted I have all of his alts on ignore, but that's because his alt-posting really seems to bring out the worst in him.
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