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| EnragedSlith 03/14/18 2:26:41 AM #8: | foreverzero212 posted... Bloodmoon77 posted...The sooner you stop dwelling on what could have been and instead do everything in your power to better yourself as a person, the sooner you'll stop caring about her. Your mistake was seeing her after the break up. This should be a nice wake up call for you man. Block her on everything, do not see anything about her and do not speak to her. It sounds shitty but it's a blessing in disguise. You have the power within yourself to do this and I guarantee you'll be happier in the end. Never let a woman run your life. These are my thoughts, but romantic relationships are trickier due to the feelings and investments involved. I tried just being a friend, but I couldnt let go of how odd the break had been. She just dropped me after inviting me to meet her extended family. They effectively adopted me as the boyfriend, and it was like she ran because the relationship was suddenly real. It went from showcasing me on social media, talking from morning to night, sappy notes, random gifts, to nothing overnight. Even now, to accept friendship, Id have to accept that this hugely significant part of my life was based on the feeble whims of a girl with a lifelong habit of giving more than she could offer. That it wasnt ever real. I realized too late that she kept broaching interaction because she was lonely and missed interacting with someone who cared so much about her that shed never have to work for it. It seems so obvious in retrospect, but I was a broken man at the time with very little self confidence. I knew the cease in periodic conversation meant Id been replaced in some capacity. But it was only a matter of time. It would be selfish not to be happy for her, so I can parse this from whatever else Im feeling --- ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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