Quick anatomy lesson here guys, blood comes out of the vagina, urine (pee) comes out of the urethra.
This is probably one of those topics that I shouldn't have read because now, for the rest of my life, I will always wonder "does he hate doing it" to the point where I wouldn't be able to relax and wouldn't enjoy it. When it comes to sex and intimacy, if there is something you don't like "doing" then don't do it. I never considered for a minute that this would be a thing -- silly me I guess. My boyfriend always gave me the impression that he couldn't wait to do this, kind of like "gotta have it now" type thing. And him enjoying it (or so I thought he did, if not he was a great actor) made me enjoy it even more with both of us being uninhibited and anxious to please the other. Never once did I feel that "you did it to me so I have to do it to you" thing that was spoken of. There were many times where I would please him and not expect anything back, and he did the same to me -- it all depended on the mood or the game or what we were going for.
There are so many ways to do it but I just looked at it like that "lots of different positions". I never thought of them as making the dude uncomfortable. My boyfriend never once gave me the impression that one way or the other was more difficult or uncomfortable for him, it was just whatever happened at that minute. As for being smelly or not clean, why would that even happen? It only takes a few minutes to wash down there and freshen up. Heck, if you have company coming over to your house you clean up, so if you have "company" coming to visit you down there you freshen up.
I just didn't realize it was a nasty chore.
You're going to let a bunch of self-righteous CEmen ruin your sex life? I mean fuck... you can tell easily if someone is genuinely interested in something or not. If you can't read that in bed, then that's your problem.