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Topic	My friend cried because I didn't give her $20 when she came to borrow money.
FreezerDoor 02/19/18 3:11:05 PM #28:	Darkman124 posted... AlisLandale posted... And either way you didnt get the 50 back. So you accomplished nothing that couldnt have been done with directness. nah directness got him no conversation he manipulated his way into a conversation and got the clear message "you will never see that money again or any other" now personally? i wouldnt bother with the conversation i would take the social clue that the person is a leech when they didnt pay me back or respond when asked, and cut them off without saying anything further but some people--esp men wrt women--want concrete evidence that the person does not value them before they cut their losses Yea. You summed it up perfectly. Trying to be direct wasn't gonna get a response. What I did was the only way to know for sure she wasn't gonna pay me back. Bass_X0 posted... I also ended my friendship with her. How did she take it? Not well. --- Edmonton Oilers winning a draft is like giving a homeless person money but knowing they are going to spend it on drugs and alcohol- Xunolix <cite>FreezerDoor posted [p:896381491] in My friend ... [t:76336046]...</cite> <quote><cite>Darkman124 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>AlisLandale posted...</cite> <quote> And either way you didnt get the 50 back. So you accomplished nothing that couldnt have been done with directness. </quote> nah directness got him no conversation he manipulated his way into a conversation and got the clear message "you will never see that money again or any other" now personally? i wouldnt bother with the conversation i would take the social clue that the person is a leech when they didnt pay me back or respond when asked, and cut them off without saying anything further but some people--esp men wrt women--want concrete evidence that the person does not value them before they cut their losses</quote> Yea. You summed it up perfectly. Trying to be direct wasn't gonna get a response. What I did was the only way to know for sure she wasn't gonna pay me back. <cite>Bass_X0 posted...</cite> <quote><quote> I also ended my friendship with her.</quote> How did she take it?</quote> Not well. --- Edmonton Oilers winning a draft is like giving a homeless person money but knowing they are going to spend it on drugs and alcohol- Xunolix</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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