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Topicpick up artist pro tip: have girls meet you at your place before a date
No_U_L7
02/18/18 9:54:40 PM
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JustMyOpinion posted...
No_U_L7 posted...
JustMyOpinion posted...
Dude, you're pressuring people to do things they don't want to do with BS tactics. Just accept it.


If they didn't want to do it...they wouldn't do it. And yet girls show up, willingly come in for a drink and have a good time. If you're just that afraid to ask, that's a whole different problem. I have no such issue at least asking and then adjusting if that's not what the girl wants to do.


Asking with no pressure and pretending to forget your wallet to get em inside are two completely different things.


How is it different? Same thing from the girls perspective, i ask and if they don't want to come in that's fine. I'm just giving them a logical excuse to come in with the wallet thing. It's just you personally feeling weird about purposefully leaving your wallet inside. Because I understand women so well I understand it actually makes them MORE comfortable if there's a logical reason for them to come in.

MrDrMan posted...
This is terrible advice IMO. It depends on how well you know the girl. Some chicks will be weirded out by an invite to your place if they know you very well.

If Im going on a date with a woman I usually just meet her there. That way she doesnt feel like Im coming on strong. If she decides she want to come back its a done deal. Ive never once invited a girl to my current apartment and not smashed. Probably 10 or so chicks but I have a girlfriend now and Im not about that.


There's nothing wrong with coming on slightly strong...as long as you know how to adjust to it after. Some girls actually like it. If a girl doesn't like it, i know how to adjust. And you make it sound like the fact you sleep with every girl you bring back as a good thing...that's actually a bad thing. It's one of those "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take" type of deals. I'll take every gorgeous girl back that's willing to come back. some that I think aren't dtf end up being dtf. I'll take the chance of closing the deal with a beautiful girl any day over the ego stroke of a "high close rate". In any given year I'll pull hundreds of girls back home...and maybe sleep with a fraction of them. But that's fine.
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