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if you're planning on sleeping with a girl on a date (and you should be, even on a first date), ideally you should have your logistics all planned out right. Take her to a few places around your place and then bounce her home for sex. I live downtown of a major metropolitan city, so there's tons of bars/restaurants within a couple blocks of me. Know these places well.

So I just tell girls to meet me outside my building and then we'll take it from there and give them my address. There are many reasons for this. This way, if the girl is late, you're just at home doing whatever (working, watching a movie, etc) instead of waiting on her somewhere. I've had girls show up as much as 3 hours late (these supermodel types are always like this...) and it doesn't matter to me because I don't lose much. If she flakes or just flat out doesn't show up...you didn't really waste that much effort.

Now, once a girl shows up I tell her to let's start with a drink here while we discuss where we want to go. Most girls will come along inside for a drink. Then sometimes (emphasis on sometimes), one drink turns into 2 and so on and we end up sleeping together without ever leaving the apartment. Or we have one drink and then head out to get food or drink more. At least then she's already been inside my apartment and feels semi-comfortable there so when we go back for sex later she's not freaking out

If the girl doesn't want to come in (usually because they feel uncomfortable), I say that's fine but I left my wallet inside, come with me to grab it and then we'll head out. No biggie, again then at least she's seen the inside of my apartment and her comfort with it has marginally increased so that we can head back there for sex later with less objections.

Caveat: Never use the phrase "my place", this triggers quite the defense mechanism in girls. Just work around it, say "my spot", "the headquarters", "the loft", etc.

Even if you don't live in the downtown area, I would suggest doing this, just take her to some place in your area.

Even if you don't live downtown but plan on taking her there, I suggest doing this. Unless you live really far out of the way, in which I suggest moving closer. That way you can drive her and it's less clunky moving place to place and, if anything, she has to go back to your place to get her car...and possibly have sex. Or once she gets there, the two of you can take an uber into the city together if you plan on drinking.

If you don't have a car, just ask her to pick you up as long as it's semi on the way. I've done this when dating locals while I was traveling, it's not a big deal. Or again, have her show up and then uber somewhere together.
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