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TopicThese are the kind of girls who message me on okcupid
lincoln002
02/08/18 12:46:30 PM
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Tadamoto38 posted...
dolomedes posted...
Tadamoto38 posted...
Master Kazuya posted...
I think the 3rd girl in the OP is cute

I actually talked to her for a bit. But she stopped responding.

lol

Here was our conversation.

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Maybe you can tell me what I did wrong.


Do you know what emotional intelligence is?

"the capacity to be aware of, control, and express one's emotions, and to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically."

It's much more empowering and intelligent to recognize WHEN to send her a message so you know what kind of message to send. Timing is critical, so don't spend so much time thinking of what to say, often times whatever comes to your mind within 3 seconds is the best response. I make it a habit to respond quickly and I also freestyle rap to keep me sharp. The reason for quick responses is to demonstrate you have manners, but that you're also not being fake. It can also be used to gage her interest, depending on the speed she responds in means a lot. If she responds quick and matches your speed it means she wants to talk to you. Also, another good habit and a good way to end conversations if you're stuck and can't improvise is to tell her "I got your message ttyl." if you do this make sure you give it a couple hours and use your emotional intelligence to figure out what to say. The whole point of texting her is to get her to meet you in real life, that's the closing sale, the next closing sale is to have sex with her.

Was this helpful? It kind of sucks when you're trying your best to get something you want and everyone treats you like a bro instead of treating you like a human being. Most these people are laughing at you, but they wouldn't have the slightest clue of what to do in your position.
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