I never said I was. In fact, many women go through similar things. And we do it often. Its repeated cases of being grabbed or touched or poked by men at their leisure really. Its barbaric if you think of it :/
As I said before, this is far from the worst thing thats happened to me, but it still made me uncomfortable so yeah I get to complain.
Its disgusting, sincerely, that youre actually sitting there telling me to feel honored when people do those sorts of things to me because it means they think Im worth it. Because Im definitly much more valuable than their cheap thrills and inappropriate touching and I dont want see myself as some product for guys enjoyment. Im not even sexually active atm because Im just not comfortable with the thought of me doing that stuff and those guys talking about or thinking about me that way forever (would be different with a long term boyfriend, but all my relationships end after a couple months or less because Im not comfortable having sex, so either they break up or do weird things of varying degrees, such as back me into corner and grope all my stuffs or send me pics of myself with their stuff on it or tell everyone I do stuff with them that I dont do)
So no I shouldnt feel honored that guys think Im worth that and I shouldnt be thankful when guys catcall me or anything like that, I get to be upset and I get to talk about it in hopes that maybe, people will start to actually treat sexism more seriously so if I ever get to have a daughter then she wont have to deal with as much stuff like that.
You saying Its just... anything is ridiculous. Im not sitting here traumatized. From the beginning I just said its something thats bothered me.
But you dont really know what its like to be grabbed and groped and devalued into something that only exists for guys to gawk and and feel (not saying thats what happened here because it may have been an accident)
Or what its really like to all the time be told dirty things or explicit things or have guys just talk to you like you owe yourself to them
So you shouldnt sit there acting like its nothing.
You can either talk about it and try to learn Or leave it be because I wouldnt force you to discuss it even if I could
But acting like its nothing when you just dont know and dont understand is a serious issue.
I rarely see it happen. I have been grabbed on my ass by a woman where is my pity party? ---
-------------------------------------------------- *Proud Social Justice Warrior*