If you can't survive cheating, emotional or physical, I don't think its true love, sorry, my OPINION.
I dont think thats a fair statement. You could easily turn it around and say if the person truly loved you, they wouldnt have cheated.
Everyone is entitled to their boundaries.
I mean yeah you can disagree with me, I very blatantly stated its my opinion. I get that argument to it, but I don't agree with it. Like you said in your original, very well written post, people make mistakes. Can't blame someone for being human. But, your tolerance level for mistakes depends on your affection for someone. Think about if your coworker did the same mistake your spouse did, who would you forgive sooner?
Right, I dont think you can blame someone for being human. Same goes for the person who feels they just cant trust their spouse the same way again, or love them the same, those are human feelings. Thats just my opinion though, I dont mean to be dismissive of yours or anything. We can agree to disagree.