Nah, he was suckerpunched. It's not like he was expecting it after being called out like in an old western by a clearly PO'd guy defending his wife.
I thought he wanted to talk. He told me to tell him what I said to his wife so I did just like he asked.
How dense do you have to be to think he just wanted to talk? That post is all but directly saying "come over so I/her bf can fight you" because of whatever you said. You don't get to talk about a sucker punch period because they were clear about it before you even got there...
If he wanted to fight then why did he want me to tell him what I said? It really doesn't matter if you are just going to fight anyways. That's why I figured he wanted to talk first.