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Topic	Imagine falling in love with someone but they never told you they were trans
BigSLM1993 12/23/17 9:46:41 AM #40:	Choco posted... solosnake posted... Duncanwii posted... Lorenzo_2003 posted... NibeIungsnarf posted... Okay you have a long-ass relationship with someone and never knew they were trans. How would finding out be different from any other massive thing that person has lied to not told you about? It might be interesting to him because the reactions can vary so much from person to person. Some people are more or less Ok with being lied to, others never get over it and some will even kill the liar because of their dishonesty. Like you said, it doesn't even have to be the trans issue. Any signifcant deception could be a catalyst for an unpredictable reaction. They aren't being lied to though. Transwoman are woman. It's up to the boyfriend to accept that fact. nah, if they cant have children they arent real women imo TIL old women don't exist Obviously if a woman is infertile she's still a woman. I'd say that if talks come up about being pregnant and raising a biological family of the same genes comes up, then the transwoman needs to fess up. Much like how I feel if a cisgender woman in advance knows she's incapable of having kids, then needs to be honest. And I think it's better to be honest upfront. Transwoman & Cisgender women are not the same, hence the distinction. To act like relationship dynamics between dating either are the same is being willfully blind. Even things like never having to worry about sex around menstruation or avoiding sex when they're ovulating are things that will never happen while dating a Transwoman. I think people should date who they want but they should be transparent about their backgrounds. I personally wouldn't mind dating a transgender man (Im bi but date gay ), but I think I'd lean on the side of wanting them to keep their vagina. I think I'd be more turned off my a surgically created penis than a regular vagina. And them having a vagina obviously changes our relationship dynamics <cite>BigSLM1993 posted [p:892735066] in Imagine fa... [t:76128736]...</cite> <quote><cite>Choco posted...</cite> <quote><cite>solosnake posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Duncanwii posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Lorenzo_2003 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>NibeIungsnarf posted...</cite> <quote>Okay you have a long-ass relationship with someone and never knew they were trans. How would finding out be different from any other massive thing that person has lied to not told you about?</quote> It might be interesting to him because the reactions can vary so much from person to person. Some people are more or less Ok with being lied to, others never get over it and some will even kill the liar because of their dishonesty. Like you said, it doesn't even have to be the trans issue. Any signifcant deception could be a catalyst for an unpredictable reaction.</quote> They aren't being lied to though. Transwoman are woman. It's up to the boyfriend to accept that fact.</quote> nah, if they cant have children they arent real women imo</quote> TIL old women don't exist</quote> Obviously if a woman is infertile she's still a woman. I'd say that if talks come up about being pregnant and raising a biological family of the same genes comes up, then the transwoman needs to fess up. Much like how I feel if a cisgender woman in advance knows she's incapable of having kids, then needs to be honest. And I think it's better to be honest upfront. Transwoman & Cisgender women are not the same, hence the distinction. To act like relationship dynamics between dating either are the same is being willfully blind. Even things like never having to worry about sex around menstruation or avoiding sex when they're ovulating are things that will never happen while dating a Transwoman. I think people should date who they want but they should be transparent about their backgrounds. I personally wouldn't mind dating a transgender man (Im bi but date gay ), but I think I'd lean on the side of wanting them to keep their vagina. I think I'd be more turned off my a surgically created penis than a regular vagina. And them having a vagina obviously changes our relationship dynamics</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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