Literally all of her suggestions are 'give us free s***.'
No job training. No anti-gang work. No community investment. THE ONLY SUGGESTIONS WERE GIVE US FREE HOUSES.
If that's the only solution, it isn't a request.
I agree with you that it's not a great solution. A poverty stricken family may not last long in an upper or even middle class neighborhood because the cost of living is too high. And simply giving someone a boost without teaching them how to sustain themselves rarely turns out well.
But it's still not a "demand" no matter how you spin it. When someone says "How can I help" and you respond "you could do this, if it's within your means," that's literally not a demand at all.
I would agree, if she offered any other solution at all. ---
'It's okay that those gangbangers stole all my personal belongings and cash at gunpoint, cuz they're building a rec center!' - OneTimeBen