to a specific spider not spiders in general. when there is no obvious gender identifying features (i.e. eggs) "It," I like to dissociate myself from the spider as a living organism so it's easier for me to kill "He," I like making culturally typical assumptions about arachnid gender "She," I like making culturally atypical assumptions about arachnid gender "She," but in the loving way you'd refer to a boat "They," I don't like making assumptions about arachnid gender View Results hmph