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Umbreon posted...

I hate ghosting, though I understand I'm not entitled to anyone's attention.

Though I think what's more annoying is when you start getting half assed replies that offer you nothing. Like for some reason they can't just say "Not interested", they instead choose one word answers to whatever you just asked them (Even if it wasn't a yes or no question). Again, I'm not entitled to anything, but seems like this particular game is slower than just saying "No thanks".

That being said, I am also aware that women often run into some crazy guys that will flip the fuck out over even polite rejection.

This is what I'm talking about, I think Asherlee is too focused on her own perspective as a single woman in a male dominated society, & isn't thinking about the genuine games that other men & women play that both contribute to this issue. Replying but not saying "I'm not interested", or not replying at all instead of just saying that, has led into what's turned into mind games & cat & mouse.

Dating & relationships have become full on mini games of minesweeper because either people don't honestly communicate their disinterest so the other person knows & stops trying, or they do say something out of fear of something worse happening if they don't, & mens unstable condition on speaking to women makes them blow a gasket over nothing even if the rejection is polite. It's a severely multifaceted issue.
https://youtu.be/HaxSzEadMhk?si=nWB5wfmuHOE874ug

Like take this for instance, Moist man showed off an interaction between a dude & a girl who were gonna go out on a date, & the woman dodged a massive fucking bullet. I understand why women worry about being forthcoming & honest, most of my friends are women & I hear crazy shit all the time, but I'm just saying everyone needs to be the change they want to see & blah blah blah for things to improve. Cause dating as it stands today is inarguably fucked & I think we all agree with that