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TopicIncels: 'I wish women would look past my height and appreciate my personality.'
Pointless_Topic
11/10/23 7:58:12 AM
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As the tall guy: Either I know a lot of non-talls that are extremely charming, or your parameters are off. Given that you're saying what you're saying, it is likely I am more well adjusted to socializing than you are, and so I am more likely to be correct on this subject.

Literally one trip to the supermarket should dispel you of this idea. A lot of average sized couples with average incomes and average hair loss rates. Almost like average people are, you know, average. But moreso than that is a notable lack of tall, handsome, rich people going out and about. When you see that, it is notable because it is rare.

Just, fuckin', go out, buy groceries, watch people. As I typed this I realized it is somewhat cruel, because the only real thing I'm correcting is your parameters: The average people dating are average. What you consider to be important to getting a mate really isn't. You only consider those to be important because you have limited social experience, or because attributing fault to immutable characteristics of other people is easier than dealing with the fact that it might just be you as a person. The thing is, acknowledging and trying to change the latter is your best shot. Which of course can also be scary, because you can try and still fail, instead of never having to experience failure in the first place.
Things have changed. People are getting only fans and making more money than a regular job, posting pictures on instagram, being treated like deity's on social media, and getting treated like models . The average individual doesn't want to go with the average person anymore. not when they have 40+ folks in their dm's, with even verified users hitting them up and getting offered to be flown out.

it's not enough to be average looking with average income. when modern people are seeking those who make 6 figures or high up in the totem pole in society. If a person is "Average" they are at risk of the other person leaving for someone they feel is better. even if the average individual has a good personality. average people aren't even approaching as much, and the realistic viable option is online dating, where the standards are even higher due to needing good pics and competition.

many popular dating podcasts have touched upon this. showing that the standards are higher than ever

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