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chaos_knight posted...

Yeah true. Just need to get over my shyness. That part is incredibly, monumentally hard though. She even sends messages sometimes just wanting to cuddle and be close to me.

Yeah no one ever said this was going to be easy.

To start, I wouldn't put too much value on sex. Not right away. Intimacy is not just weiners. The first step is going to be welcoming her into your personal space.

Pay attention to how she feels, sounds, smells, and how good that is. Don't feel like you're expected to perform, like there's something you "should" be doing. There's no manual for this. Everyone is intimate in different ways.

And you can always ask her what she wants to do. Remember that this just another person. She can be just as afraid and tense and awkward as you can be.