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alright i'mma go in a few more details I avoided since tbh I do consider the possibility of gbro remembering this place exists. yeah I've already said a lot in the first place like for literally years that hasn't been noticed - but last night's update is really a massive deal that if gbro found out he would absolutely go nuts beyond anything we've seen yet

so last night's update is: gdad actually reported to the police that gbro broke his release conditions. that's why he was extra terrified last night because if gbro finds that part out there's really no telling how far he would take out his vengeance on gdad for, well, being a "traitor rat" as gbro has been muttering about for weeks now

last night he even swung by here because cops were asking for pictures of the text he sent as well as the pages of the bail conditions and gdad doesn't know how to take phone screenshots so he needed my help

so that part is all submitted and it cannot be taken back which feels pretty cemented..... however, gdad is still gradually doing that signature mind reset I've been talking about. even while screenshotting the texts gdad was very straight with me to only screenshot the text from that night where gbro told dad he's going to break bail (and telling dad to shut his mouth about it). gdad still wants to protect gbro from the fullest lengths of his actions, telling me that if the police saw the full texts that would all be too much (same thing with mom tbqh, but gdad's a MUCH HIGHER level of protective still)

but whatever like I said that bail can't be taken back, unfortunately the cop who's on the case works night shifts so not gonna hear more until the evening, and in the meantime gdad is stewing over that trademark brain reset - he's emailing me & gsis pictures of gbro as a baby to say oh what a good bye he was, and he's on the phone with gsis just an incredibly painful level of denial repeating my boy my sweet baby boy he doesn't deserve this, he was bullied as a kid, he went through a divorce, he's a good boy who would never do anything to women, he helps women, those teenage girls were hitting on him, he was drunk and vulnerable!! going on about googling supreme court of canada if gbro is really liable if he was drunk and arguing he shouldn't be - meanwhile gsis on the other end of the line, an assault victim herself and it's absolutely eating up at her to hear this shit from her father

also trying to gain sympathy for gbro be inexplicably comparing her high school troubles as "you had your problems too just like he does" which is so fucking insane to compare. yeah she had a rough teen life (because we had a shit upbringing) but she's done NOTHING AT ALL comparable to gbro's violent assaults and horrific abuse against the family that it's such a disgusting insult to compare them and to have her past - AS A TEENAGER, NOT A NEARLY 40 YEAR OLD ADULT - thrown in her face like that when she has actually made an effort to grow up and become the best person she can (keeping in mind she was always very independent, with jobs she paid for her mistakes largely on her own in her own housing)

so yeahhhh gdad's really breaking down, absurd reality breaking denial - but I mean it can't be taken back now that he reported gbro's broken conditions so that's fully up to the police now - of course, there's no guarantee that police take any of this as a particularly high priority especially now if they're on the phone with gdad who's in this mode of oh my poor boy my beautiful baby boyyyy

gdad even text gbro his delusions, telling him he's such a good boy who wouldn't do anything and from gbro's perspective rn he just thinks he's the king of the world thinking that gdad just caved and is letting him do what he wants.... but uh once he finds out police know all hell's about to break loose (again)

MariaTaylor posted...

isn't the psychologist legally obligated to report when a patient poses a clear threat to themselves or others? it feels like we are seeing one of those 'he repeatedly threatened to kill every member of his family for years, and authorities did nothing about it' news stories unfolding in real time.

two issues with this

a) both parents still don't want to share the FULL details of what's going on in fear of tacking on further charges (gmom will say further than gdad but even still)
b) more of an assumption on my part but I feel they have to get that impression from the patient themselves, and at least so far gbro's capable of hiding the well of his hatred when he goes in. typically talks very vague about details, "maybe I went too far" without explaining how far which gives the psychologist the impression that oh hey he's reflecting on his actions! when of course I know better

extending on b a bit there's also the fact our appointment explaining the further details was after gbro & gdad's appointment so the psychologist couldn't press on the fuller details as easily, they'd be more equipped next session I would hope but also we really didn't have enough time to fully get our side out either, like I said, I didn't even get an opportunity to talk much