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hockeybub89 posted...

But you don't know that either. Just because you may be a parent doesn't mean you know what other parents do. They might really just be crappy parents failing at raising their kids. We can only judge people by what they show to us. If a patient yells at me at work, I'm gonna look at the information in front of me and make a determination about their character.

I'm not saying I know. That's the point. Why would I assume the worst? What I do know is how hard it is and that we all have bad days no matter how good a parent is.

These people aren't yelling at you. They aren't doing anything to you. They're not taking their kids out to put on a show for you. You do not matter to them in any way and they shouldn't matter to you in any way either. You don't know them. You don't know anything about them or their kid. You don't know what they're doing, what they've been doing and what they plan on doing.

What makes you think you have the knowledge or experience or wisdom to judge anyone 'failing to raise their kids' because something on a surface level bothers you?