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LiberalAgenda8 posted...

Yeah but thats the exception, not the rule. Many people(even with trust) would still get frustrated if they see an EX talking with their current partner or constantly trying to reach out to them. There are people who get frustrated when a waiter/waitress flirts with their husband of 10 years. Is it out of the question if an ex constantly reaches out, for said partner to get frustrated and lay down their frustrations?

It isn't even about trust. Moreso, exes and certain situations cross boundaries. Save for situations of maybe the partner having a child with a baby momma/daddy

Not gonna argue about exes, as that was never what I was talking about. I get both sides of the argument. That said, the fact that my fiance trusts me so much only makes me more committed to her, and realize how truly lucky I am.

Even if we boil it down to just friends, part of friendships is that the good ones continue to grow. Thing is, a straight man and straight women being friends can also potentially lead to a case where one starts developing more intimate feelings for the other. Which is normal.

Potentially, yes, but my issue is when people say men and women CAN'T be friends, or when someone universally states that their partner can't have opposite sex friends. (note I am not talking about specific situations where someone doesn't want their partner being friends with a specific, troublemsome person)