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SwayM posted...

I also think theres a lot to be said about how men have to put in the work on dating apps.

When you do get a match, whos sending the first message. Whos carrying the conversation. Whos asking all the questions. Whos supposed to be funny. Whos supposed to be interesting. Etc.

Its the guy. In almost all cases its the guy.

Speaking from experience. It gets so fucking exhausting. To the point where when you do get those few and far between matches. You arent throwing your A game anymore, you just cant be bothered. But why bother when even when you are the best version of yourself you just get ghosted or something else.

I was thinking this a few of your posts ago, but every post just confirms it. You seem to have a self-defeating personality. That could factor into your success on dating apps.