LogFAQs > #975519112

As long as the stay at home set up is consensual between spouses, and they understand what the other wants from it, then nothing to judge. If its one of those cases where the spouse abuses that setup or simply refuses to work until the inevitable demise of the relationship, then they are an asshole. In the latter case, I would definitely call my brother an asshole, if it ever came up in conversation, but I wouldnt go out of my way to do anything about it.